This will be the first in a long series of beginner, intermediate, and advanced hotwife challenges and dares. We’ll be starting off with the first group of beginner hotwife challenges and dares.
Hotwife challenges and dares are primarily meant to just be fun in a sexual way. But they do have many additional benefits to the hotwife. Regardless whether she is new to the lifestyle or a seasoned veteran. Let’s take a quick look at some of the benefits before we get into the actual hotwife challenges and dares.
Hotwife dares and challenges can help the hotwife to relax more and start really enjoying and indulging in the hotwife lifestyle.
One of the main benefits to any hotwife is that dares and challenges help her to get more comfortable with stepping outside her comfort zone and being more open to explore new and exciting sexual experiences.
Hotwife challenges and hotwife dares can help a woman that is brand new to the hotwife lifestyle ease into it with more self-confidence and reassurance.
Many hotwife challenges and dares can be used to empower the woman and boost her ego.
One more benefit is that she can gloat to her husband about winning dares and completing fun and exciting sexual challenges.
The bottom line is use these hotwife challenges and dares in a fun and friendly competitive style. Except the gloating of course.
Guys, I want you to not read the next paragraph. Only the hotwife women are allowed to read it.
Ladies, why not make it even more rewarding and fun for yourself. Make your husband give you some type of reward or prize for completing a hotwife challenge or performing a hotwife dare. And, of course, you still have the gloating rights.
OK guys, you can start reading again.
Let’s now move on to the first group of beginner hotwife dares. They are in no particular order of funness or excitement.
Play Single at a Bar or Nightclub With One of Your Girlfriends
This is a fairly simple hotwife challenge. Go to a bar or nightclub with one of your girlfriends. It would be best to go to a bar or nightclub where nobody would know you or your friend.
Once at the nightclub or bar, just act and pretend that you are single. Make sure you flirt a little like you did when you were single. If a guy flirts with you or approaches you, make sure you flirt back with him.
The idea is to get used to going out to bars and nightclubs with the idea of meeting single guys like you did before you were married.
Bonus points if you get the guy to slow dance with you or kiss you. Extra bonus points if you exchange telephone numbers.
Take Very Sexy and Provocative Pictures and Let Your Husband Share Them With Other Men
This one is very easy to do. You may feel a little embarrassed from it though. But the key is to have fun with it and reap the benefits it can bring to a new hotwife.
Have your husband take several very provocative pictures of you. Think tasteful lingerie pictures to full on sex pictures. The more provocative the pictures the better.
Now, give your husband permission to share these pictures of you with his friends. Once he shares the pictures with one of his friends, he has to tell you how they reacted and what they said.
This challenge is actually a great ego booster and helps the new hotwife to realize just how sexy they are and how other men want them sexually.
If you embarrass easily, start off with fully clothed sexy pictures and build up to very provocative ones over time.
Also give your husband permission to show the pictures to complete strangers. You never know where a new bull may come from.
Go to a Happy Hour Dressed Sexy and “Accidentally” Flash Some Guys Your Panties
Put on a very short dress or skirt. Wear a bright colored panty or thong under it. The brighter the better. Now, go out to a bar or nightclub happy hour. Find a place to sit that is facing a group of guys. While you are sitting, make sure to cross and uncross your legs, flashing them a glimpse of your bright colored panties or thong.
Sitting at the bar can also work for this hotwife challenge. Just make sure you are sitting somewhere that you can accidentally flash guys.
You can get bonus points if you act like you realized you flashed them and pretend to be a little embarrassed.
You could also bring your husband or one of your friends with you for moral support.
This hotwife challenge should help you at being a little more daring and help to bring out the exhibitionist in you.
Triple bonus points if you then go to the restroom, remove your panties or thong, come back out and flash the guys again, without any panties on this time.
Walk Down a Crowded Beach Wearing a Tiny Bikini
Put on your smallest and most revealing bikini. Now head to the beach and just go for a walk. This one should be fairly easy if you pick a beach that has normally has a lot of women walking around in tiny bikinis.
Make sure you walk by a lot of guys. You want to draw their attention, so you can get used to showing off a lot of skin. This hotwife challenge should also help you to feel more comfortable being looked at in a sexual way.
Bonus points if you stop and talk to a group of guys. Extra bonus points if you go have a drink with them or exchange telephone numbers with one or more guys while at the beach showing off your sexy body.
Talk to a Friend on the Phone While Your Husband Eats You
This hotwife challenge can be very enjoyable for you and your husband. Call a friend on the phone, and while you are talking to them, have your husband eat you.
Bonus points if you orgasm while still on the phone talking. Double bonus points if you turn the phone call into a phone sex call.
A more advanced version of this hotwife challenge is to call a stranger while your husband eats you. You could call a store and ask questions about something they sell.
An alternative to this challenge would be to call a phone sex line while your husband eats you.
Join a Dating Site and Create a Dating Profile
Find a singles dating site and join. Then fill out the profile fully and upload some sexy but not raunchy photos.
This hotwife challenge will help the new hotwife get used to guys flirting with them and hitting on them online. She can actually even have a lot of fun with this challenge by letting her alter ego out and chatting it up with the guys anyway she wants.
This challenge will also help the new hotwife get over any shyness she may have by chatting with guys over the Internet instead of in a face-to-face situation like a bar.
Bonus points if you go out on a date with one of the guys you meet on the dating site.
Point out Guys You Would Love to Fuck to Your Husband
This can be a fun and educational challenge for the new hotwife. When out on the town with your husband, point out guys that you find attractive and give you tingles. Let your husband know what you find sexy about the guys you point out, and why you would like to fuck them.
This challenge can be done while walking in the city, at the beach, or at a nightclub or bar. You could do this one even when the two of you are just out shopping.
This new hotwife challenge helps to teach your husband what attracts you to particular men. This can help him to learn what types of guys turn you on. This will help him to find new bulls for you that you would be attracted to and would enjoy having sex with.
No need for the hotwife to find all of her bulls to play with. Let the husband also help with finding new bulls for you.
Dress Sexy and Go to a Hotel Bar Frequented by Business Travelers
Get dressed up really sexy, and head to a hotel that is frequented by business travelers that has a bar or lounge. When you arrive at the hotel, take your time walking through the lobby. You want to be noticed.
Once you are in the hotel bar, find a seat at the bar. If possible, find a seat at the bar that is on a corner or near an area of the bar that customers can walk up to order drinks.
Whenever you see a guy you like, make sure you smile at him. If a guy approaches you and flirts with you, flirt back. You are playing like you are single and want to get lucky. If a guy offers to buy you a drink, ask him to sit down or join you while you enjoy the drink, he bought you.
When possible, make eye contact with any guy you are attracted to. Don’t break that eye contact until he looks away. If he smiles, smile back.
Bonus points if you go to a room with a guy to have a nightcap. If you do, just let the night progress naturally like you were a single woman.
When doing this new hotwife challenge, keep in mind that the guys you see will most likely never see you again, since they are traveling on business. So, feel free to let your hair down.
Go Grocery Shopping for Cucumbers, Condoms, and Lube
If you enjoy embarrassing people a little, this new hotwife challenge may be perfect for you. Dress up a little sexy like you are going out on a date.
Now head to the grocery store. Go inside and get cucumbers of various sizes, sex lube, and condoms. Now when you go to checkout, it’s important to find a male cashier. Once you find a male cashier, get in line.
Lay out your products on the conveyor belt or set them down on the checkout shelf. Just stand there smiling as he rings up your items. If he has any brain cells at all, he will most likely put two and two together and get a little embarrassed. Just continue to smile at him as you pay your bill. The idea is to try your best to embarrass him a little.
This type of hotwife challenge can help a new hotwife to get used to buying things for sexual use without getting embarrassed herself.
Bonus points if you tell him, it’s date night after he has already figured things out and is acting a little embarrassed.
Hold Eye Contact With a Guy You Find Sexually Attractive
This first time hotwife challenge is actually very simple but can be very intense. This one can work wonders, especially at a bar or nightclub. While out on the town, find a guy that you are sexually attracted to. Now find a way to make eye contact with him. Now for the intense part. Do not break eye contact with him, until he looks away.
The idea with this challenge is for the new hotwife to get comfortable with being slightly dominant and going after whoever she wants. It will also help her to get comfortable with making first moves and approaching guys she finds sexually attractive.
Bonus points if you hold the eye contact for a bit, and then smile and wink at the guy.
Wear a Butt Plug While out Shopping
Looking for a new hotwife challenge that is actually very simple to do, but feels nice and taboo? If so, this one may be for you.
Insert a butt plug that is a comfortable size for you. Now get dressed and go shopping. Only you will know about the little kinky thing you are doing.
You could even do this one while you are out shopping or walking around town with your husband. Either let him know you are wearing it, or keep it a secret, and tell him when the two of you arrive back home.
This hotwife challenge can help you to begin to feel comfortable doing sexual things that are a little on the kinky side.
Put on a Very Short Skirt and Go Play Pool at a Local Bar
This fun hotwife challenge can be worked into gradually if needed. Put on a sexy short skirt or short dress, and head to a local bar that has a pool table. The idea is to shoot pool while wearing a short skirt or short dress.
Make sure it’s short enough to give the guys nearby a glimpse of your butt cheeks when you bend over to shoot.
You can start off with a basic short skirt or dress, and once you feel comfortable, wear an even shorter skirt or dress.
This is a great hotwife challenge to help you get comfortable with flashing as a means of flirting.
If you need a little moral support, bring your husband with you. I’m sure he will enjoy the show and can let you know which guys check you out, and how the guys act.
You can wear either a regular but sexy pair of panties, or a thong. Just have fun with this one.
Dress Very Provocatively and Go to a Bar Alone
Get all dressed up very provocatively and go to a bar alone. Once you are in the bar, pretend that you are single, and looking to be picked up. When you walk around the bar, smile at guys you find sexually attractive.
If you are just not ready to go to a bar alone, have your husband come along with you. But the two of you need to pretend that you don’t know each other.
It’s best to do this simple hotwife challenge at a bar that you and your husband don’t frequent regularly.
This hotwife challenge should help you to be more confident when you are out bar hopping alone looking for new bulls to meet.
Dress Sexy When Your Husband Has the Guys Over
When your husband has some of his male friends over, get dressed really sexy and a little on the provocative side. Make sure your makeup and hair are done like you are going out on the town to go bar hopping.
Once his friends are over, walk out and say hi to all of them. If you can, be a little flirty with them. The idea is to get them all jaw dropping from just looking at you.
This beginner hotwife challenge can help tremendously with the new hotwife’s confidence. It can also get her comfortable being dressed super sexy around a group of guys. Who knows, one of your husbands’ friends could be your next bull to conquer.
Bonus points if you sit in one of their laps.
Model Lingerie for Your Husband at the Lingerie Shop
This beginner hotwife challenge can be fun, with some extra benefits. Go to a lingerie store with your husband that allows you to try on different lingerie. Go when the shop is usually busy. You want other guys around when you do this.
Now try on different outfits and model each of them for your husband. The idea is to make sure you are seen by as many guys as possible.
This hotwife challenge can help you to get comfortable being dressed in skimpy lingerie around other guys.
Make sure your husband buys you any outfit he thinks you are really sexy looking in.
Bonus points if you offer to model an outfit for someone looking for lingerie to buy his girlfriend or wife.
Go to the Beach in a Bikini and Pretend to Tan
This should be a fairly easy hotwife challenge for any new hotwife. Put on a bikini and head to the beach. Find a crowded spot that seems to have a good number of guys around and no children.
Now put down a towel and lay down to tan face down. Undo your bikini top like you are tanning your back, and don’t want bikini lines. If you are not used to the beach, make sure you use plenty of suntan lotion, so you don’t burn.
Now, when guys walk by, raise up on your elbows, and smile. Just make sure your nipples stay concealed. Now, just enjoy the attention you will be getting.
Bonus points if you sit up and do a hand bra from time to time while guys are nearby.
This beginner hotwife challenge should help you to be more at ease around guys you don’t know while being very scantily clad.
Go Shopping for a Short Skirt and Get a Guy to Give You His Opinion on Its Length
Here is a fun flirty beginner hotwife challenge. Go to the shopping mall or big box store to shop for a sexy short skirt. Find one that is fairly short and walk around with it in your hand until you find a hot guy. Now walk up to him and act like you are shopping.
Hold the skirt up to you like you are checking it for length. Or maybe see if it goes with a top. The idea is to get his attention and tell him you need a man’s opinion on something, and if you could impose on him for a few seconds. If he asks you what he can help you with, hold the skirt up to your body and tell him you are shopping for a sexy skirt to wear to a nightclub. Then ask him if the one you are holding up to your body is short enough, or too short. Act like you just can make up your mind if you should go shorter or not.
Bonus points if you get him to come over to the dressing rooms so you can try it on and get his opinion on it. You could grab a few more skirts and model them for him pretending that he is helping you select the perfect short skirt.
Send a Provocative Photo to One of Your Husband’s Friends by Accident
Take some provocative pictures of yourself like you were taking them to send to your husband to sexually tease him. The more provocative the better. Now, send one of the photos to a guy that you and your husband know well. Pretend you sent it by accident, and you meant to send it to your husband.
If you are not sure which guy to send the photo to, have your husband help pick out the victim of your little hotwife prank.
This can help a new hotwife to shrug off slight embarrassment so she can have more fun at being a hotwife.
Wear a Sheer Dress With a Matching Bra and Panties Under It out in Public
Wear some type of sheer dress with matching bra and panties under it. Now head out to a nightclub or bar either alone, or with a girlfriend. You could also go out shopping if you prefer.
You can get very cute sheer sun dresses that work perfect for this hotwife challenge during the summer.
This hotwife challenge will help you to get comfortable with both guys and girls checking you out. Some will love what you have on, while others will be judgmental.
If you are not ready for a really sheer dress, they do have dresses that are semi sheer that can only be seen through when a light source is behind you.
Go Walking or Shopping Wearing Nothing but a Long Coat and Shoes
Want to pretend you are a secret agent? But with a twist? This beginner hotwife challenge can be fun and naughty feeling at the same time. Put on a trench coat or long coat. Wear nothing at all under it. Now put on some high heels or sneakers. Now go out for a walk around people or go shopping.
Only you will know how naughty you are being. Optionally, you could wear a garter belt and stockings under the coat.
This new hotwife challenge will help you get comfortable with doing things on the naughty side.
Go to a Nude Beach
This beginner hotwife challenge is a little more daring. Go to a nude beach alone and walk down the beach. You should go on days that the nude beach is crowded. As you walk by other people say hi, and smile. Just have fun with it. And remember, everyone else is also nude.
If you are too chicken to do this alone, bring a friend with you. Or make your husband go with you.
Bonus points if you stop and talk to a group of naked guys. You can always say it’s your first time here and ask them how far down the beach does the nude area go.
This hotwife challenge will help you to get more comfortable being nude around strangers.
Go to a Swingers Club
Plan a trip to a swinger club. Preferably an on-premise club. You can go alone as a Unicorn, or go with a friend, or even your husband. Once you are settled into the swinger club, walk around alone, and simply smile at guys and couples you are attracted to.
Since this is a beginner hotwife challenge, it’s OK to just watch, and observe. You don’t have to play unless you want to.
The purpose of this beginner hotwife challenge is to get you comfortable in a sex club environment where there is sex going on all around you.
Bonus points if you walk around the swinger club nude, in revealing lingerie, or in a towel.
Go to a Strip Club
This beginner hotwife challenge is simple to do. Just get dressed up nice and sexy and go to a strip club. Just have a good time, and don’t forget to tip the strippers. Bonus points if you get a lap dance, or VIP dance.
This hotwife challenge can be done alone, with a friend, a group, or just with your husband.
The idea behind this challenge is to get yourself used to being around other sexy women that are in various states of dress. If they can be comfortable with their sexuality, so can you.
Buy Large Condoms at the Local Drugstore or Box Store
Here is another simple beginner hotwife challenge that is easy to do. It can also be fun, if you don’t get embarrassed easily. Go to a drugstore or box store and buy two or more boxes of large size condoms. Now, just make sure you go to a register to checkout that a guy is running. Just smile at him when you lay the condoms down on the counter.
Bonus points if you also buy a bottle of lube.
Double bonus points if they sell wine, and you grab a bottle or two.
If you do buy all three items, when you lay them down on the counter in front of the guy, just smile and say, it’s date night. That will get you triple bonus points.
This beginner hotwife challenge will help you to be more open and not embarrass as easily about sexual situations in front of a stranger.
Go Cucumber Shopping at a Grocery Store
Put on something sexy or cutesy. Now head to the grocery store. Once you arrive, go to the produce department. Wait until a few guys are in the area, and then start picking out cucumbers.
Now here is the fun part. Pick up several different sizes and examine them. Wrap your fingers around them and slide it up and down slowly, with a smile on your face. You could even bite your bottom lip from time to time. You want to look like you are checking them out for size. If you know what I mean.
Now select the biggest one you can find. When you look at it, have an oh shit type of look on your face. Then put it in your cart or basket.
Bonus points if you smile or wink at a guy that is possibly watching you pick out cucumbers.
Ask a Guy for Help Picking out an Outfit at the Mall
his one may be a little more advanced but can work well for helping to build a new hotwife’s courage and ego.
Go to the local mall and walk around until you find a guy that you would not mind going out on a date with. The more he gives you tingles, the better. Now act like you are a little worried and approach him. Once you have his attention, tell him you are shopping for something to wear for a hot date you have tonight. Then tell him that you really need a man’s opinion and ask him if he has a few minutes to help you out.
Once you find a guy that is willing to help, take him to the lingerie shop. Now start shopping for some extremely sexy outfits. Hold them up to your body and ask him what he thinks. You could even ask him if he thought you would look sexy in this.
Bonus points if you try several pieces of lingerie on, and model them for him.
This new hotwife challenge can be a great ego booster and increase a new hotwife’s courage.
Wear a Remote-Control Sex Toy While Out With Your Husband
This beginner hotwife challenge can be a lot of fun for you and your husband. The key is to just have fun with it. You don’t even need to get all dressed up for this one.
Put on or insert a remote-control sex toy. Now give your husband the remote control. Test the remote-control sex toy a few times to make sure it’s in position and comfortable. Now head out for a walk, or shopping. The key for this one to work is to go someplace where there are normally a lot of guys around.
Now, as the two of you walk, point out guys to your husband that give you tingles. Each time you point out a guy, your husband should turn on the remote-control sex toy for a few moments, while you continue to check the hot guy out.
If you are brave enough, you could even give your husband permission to turn the sexy toy on randomly without your prior knowledge.
This hotwife challenge also works well when combined with other hotwife challenges like the playing single in a bar. Each time you talk to a guy, your husband could fire it up to give you even more tingles.
Bonus points if you let yourself orgasm. Double bonus points if you orgasm while talking to a hot guy.
Create a Personal Members Account on Swinger Lifestyle Sites
Many couples reading this will probably already have an SDC or SLS lifestyle site membership. In this challenge, the new hotwife will create her own personal account on SDC or SLS. Or possibly both. Both of these sites are great for meeting possible future bulls for the hotwife.
When you create your personal member account, slant the profile to be a hotwife profile instead of a regular swinger profile. Make sure you include exactly what you are looking for in a bull. Also upload a lot of photos. Both clean and X rated. The idea is to draw a lot attention from single guys.
Having your own profile on these sites will help you to really discover exactly what attracts you to a single guy, and what does not.
Chatting with the guys that message you, and there will most likely be a lot, will help you to learn to carry on sexual conversations with guys that are not your husband. It’s also a great ego booster when the private messages and likes start to roll in.
