If you love sex toys and a little exhibitionism, you are going to love these 15 very beginner friendly hotwife challenges and dares that all involve remote control sex toys. Some are extremely beginner friendly and easy to do, while others are a little more daring. Read through them all and then pick a few that are easy to do and you feel comfortable with.
After that, why not pick a few that push you a little out of your comfort zone and give them a try. Just keep safety, appropriateness, and consent in mind when planning a hotwife challenge or dare.
If you are nervous about one of the beginner hotwife challenges but want to give it a try, you can always agree to a maximum time the toy can be turned on, and how often. Maybe even create a safe word you can speak or text to have the toy turned off. The idea here is to have fun and enjoy being naughty in situations without anyone knowing except you and your husband. Now, just go have a vibe of a good time!
Dinner for Two… and a Secret Vibe Hotwife Challenge
This is a fun hotwife challenge to do when you go out to dinner with your husband. Before you get dressed to go out, put a little lube on a remote-control sex toy and insert it inside your pussy. If you have a remote sex toy that stimulates the clit and the g-spot, use that one if you are really daring. For beginners, a remote sex toy that is inserted into the pussy is fine to use. Now get dressed and head to your favorite restaurant.
Once the two of you have been seated at your table, your husband will decide when to turn on the sex toy. Your challenge is to stay calm and keep talking and chatting with your husband like nothing is going on down below. His job is to try to get you to let out a little moan or show some sign that you are getting sexually turned on or even pleasured.
If you are really brave, your husband could turn on the sex toy while you are talking to the waiter or waitress. Just have fun with this one and enjoy the dinner you are having with your husband. Make sure he promises to ravish you once the two of you return home as your reward. No use in wasting all that built up sexual tension. Now is there?
Can You Keep It Together? The Hotwife Call Challenge
This is a great hotwife dare to do on a rainy evening when you and your husband are stuck at home. No need to be bored when you can have a little hotwife fun. Here is how this hotwife dare works.
You insert or strap on a remote-control toy. Grab your phone and either head to the living room or bedroom. Get comfortable and have your husband sit where he can watch you. Now, call a friend or someone you matched with on a hotwife dating app, and have a conversation. While you are chatting on your phone, your husband will control the remote-control sex toy. His goal is to get you to lose your composure. Your goal is to keep chatting like nothing is going on. A good husband will ramp up the intensity of the sex toy as the call goes on.
You get bonus points if you can orgasm while on the call without the other person catching on. Sound like hotwife fun? Why not give this one a try the next time it rains.
Public Bathroom, Private Pleasure Hotwife Challenge
This hotwife challenge is very simple and can be done the next time you and your husband are eating or even shopping. The only requirement is that the place you choose has a restroom that contains multiple stalls. This one won’t work if it’s a private one-person bathroom.
Before the two of you head out, don’t forget to slip in or strap on a remote-control sex toy, and quickly test it out. You’ve got to test it out, right? Now head out and go shopping or to get something to eat. Make sure you find a place where the women’s room is frequently used. You don’t want it crowded, but you do want to have other women going in and out of it.
Are you ready? Head to the women’s room. When your husband sees you getting close to the bathroom door, he should turn the remote-control sex toy on low. Now your challenge is to make it into the restroom and into one of the bathroom stalls without losing your composure.
If you make it to an empty stall, just enjoy the vibrations of the sex toy. Your husband will be turning it up and up while you are in the restroom. Once you can’t take anymore pleasure, or you know you are about to start moaning out, send a quick text message to your husband to let him know to turn it off. Note to husband: give her several more seconds of pleasure before you turn it off. If you prefer, you could just tell him to turn it down until you make it back to him.
Get bonus points if you open a video chat with your husband so he can watch you trying to keep it together or just letting an orgasm happen.
The Traffic Light Tease Hotwife Challenge
Here is a hotwife challenge that can be done anytime you and your husband are out driving someplace. Just make sure you are in the passenger seat and not driving if you except this hotwife challenge. Here is how it works.
Before the two of you head out for a drive, insert or strap on your favorite remote control sex toy. This one works really well if you also put on a short miniskirt that shows your legs to passing truckers. While your husband is stopped at a stop sign, at a stop light or in backed up traffic, he can turn on your sex toy whenever he wants. This one works best with a toy that has a physical remote control. This way he never has to take his eyes off the road to operate the sex toy you are wearing. Do not operate the toy while the vehicle is moving. If it’s on high and the next stop is a long way away, just enjoy the vibes. Optionally, you could control the remote and turn it on, up, down, and off each time your husband tells you to.
Your challenge is to keep a straight face while sitting in traffic or passing other vehicles while the sex toy is on.
For bonus points, do this hotwife challenge with one of your friends in the car with the two of you. Your challenge then will be to maintain your composure without your friend figuring out what is going on.
Want extra points? Do this hotwife challenge while your friend is driving. You could be sitting in the passenger seat with your husband in the backseat controlling the sex toy. Now, you really have got to keep your composure, so your friend does not catch on to what is going on.
Hotwife Challenge: Movie Night Remote Control
This is a great beginner hotwife challenge that can be done at home. Before you and your husband sit down to watch a movie together, insert a remote-controlled sex toy. Now, when the two of you are comfortable on the couch, hand your husband the remote before you start watching the movie. He is allowed to turn on and off the remote whenever he wants. His job is to get you to lose your composure and start moaning out. Your challenge is to keep your composure like nothing is happening until the end of the movie. Maybe, the loser makes dinner that night.
If you want to make this hotwife challenge a little more daring, invite a friend or two over to watch the movie with you. If they catch on to what is going on, you lose the challenge.
The Movie Theater Hotwife Orgasm Challenge
If you and your husband love going to the movies, this hotwife challenge may be perfect for you. Next time the two of you go to see a movie in a theater, insert or put on a remote-control sex toy. Don’t forget to give the remote to your husband. Once you are comfortably seated in the movie theater and the movie has started, your husband will turn on the sex toy randomly during the movie. If the movie has a sex scene, he should make sure he turns it on full blast during the entire scene.
Your hotwife challenge is to keep your composure as long as you can. His task is to get you to lose it and have an orgasm during the movie. He may even want to shoot for several orgasms while the movie is playing.
Bonus points if you bring along another couple or a single friend to the movie and they don’t catch on to what is going on. Extra bonus points if you go to an adult XXX theater and watch a porn movie together.
Hotwife Challenge: Wake-Up Control
This hotwife challenge is great for beginner hotwifes and can be a great way to get the day started. When you wake up, go ahead and slip in or put on a remote-control sex toy. Give the remote to your husband and then go about your normal morning routine. Your husband should turn on and off the remote as he feels fit while you are brushing your teeth, taking a shower, making your morning coffee, preparing and eating your breakfast, etc.
Now here is the challenge. You are not allowed to orgasm before your husband says you can. Or at least not let him catch you having an orgasm. You can get bonus points if you seduce your husband to reclaim you after you do orgasm from the sex toy.
Now, how is that for an exhilarating and fun morning routine? Nothing like having and orgasm to get your day off to a great start.
The Straight Face FaceTime Challenge
Do you like facetiming on your phone or computer with friends? If you do, watch out! This hotwife challenge may be perfect for you to try. The next time you are going to facetime with a friend, insert or put on a remote-control sex toy. Now, before you connect with your friend, give the remote to the sex toy to your husband. His task is to slowly turn up the intensity of the sex toy while you are facetiming with your friend.
Your challenge is to keep a straight face the entire time. Bonus points if you say, “Fuck it!” and just have an orgasm while your friend and you are chatting on video camera. You are not allowed to alert your friend ahead of time about this hotwife challenge though.
The ‘Act Normal’ Rideshare Hotwife Challenge
The next time you and your husband are taking a taxi or rideshare someplace, why not give this hotwife challenge a try. This one can also be done if you are taking a taxi or rideshare alone, as long as you have a remote-control sex toy that works over your phones. Here is how it goes.
First, make sure you insert or put on a remote-control sex toy and your husband has the remote. Next, go take that taxi or rideshare trip. Your husband’s task is to get you to break composure and orgasm by him turning up and down the remote sex toy you have inside you or you are wearing.
Your challenge is to maintain composure and not let the driver catch on to what is happening in the back seat.
Bonus points if the ride is a long one.
The ‘Don’t Moan in the Dressing Room’ Hotwife Challenge
How about the next time you are out shopping for new clothes, you take your husband along and give this wild hotwife dare a try. Here is how it works. Before heading out shopping, slip in or put on a remote-controlled sex toy. Give your husband the remote and give it a quick try. Might as well start the shopping trip off with a few tingles.
Once you are at the store and have several items to try on, head for the dressing room. Once you are in the dressing room, your husband is free to use the remote-control sex toy however he wants. His task is to get you moaning out in the dressing room while trying on clothes. Your hotwife challenge is to maintain your composure the entire time you are trying on clothes.
Once you have tried on all the clothes or just can’t take anymore tingles brought on by the sex toy, head back out to your husband. Once you have returned to him, he has to turn the sex toy off.
Bonus points if you have a silent orgasm while in the dressing room or send your husband selfies from the dressing room.
The Public Parking Garage Thrill Hotwife Dare
Have a dimly lit parking garage nearby? If so, here is a great beginner friendly hotwife challenge you can try. Here is how this hotwife challenge works.
Insert or put on a remote-control sex toy and give your husband the remote control. Now dress in a sexy outfit that will draw attention. Ready? Now it is time for the two of you to head to a dimly lit parking garage. This hotwife challenge is a lot more fun to do at night. Especially when the garage is fairly busy.
Once you are at the garage, you just get out of the car and walk through the parking garage while your husband sexually teases you with the remote-control sex toy. This challenge can create a mix of arousal and a little fear from the thrill.
Bonus points if you walk past other people in the garage and maintain your composure. Your challenge is to keep your composure and not let anyone catch on to what is going on.
Extra bonus points if you ask someone where the elevator or exit is.
Your husband’s task is to get you to moan out or start walking funny. Just remember, a parking garage has a tendency to echo and amplify voices and footsteps. So, if you moan out, you will probably be heard throughout the entire parking garage. To add thrill to this hotwife challenge, remember, most parking garages do have security cameras.
The ‘Don’t Make a Sound’ Public Library Hotwife Challenge Dare
Do you enjoy going to the public library? If you do, this may be a fun beginner friendly hotwife challenge for you. This one is actually easy to do. Here is how.
Slip in or put on a remote-control sex toy and then get dressed. You have the option to just wear what you normally do when you go to the public library or if you dare, dress a little on the sexy or skimpy side. Think sun dress or short miniskirt. Give your husband the remote and do a quick test to make sure the sex toy is working.
Once you get to the public library either alone or with your husband, it’s time to put this hotwife challenge in action. Your husband can go with you to watch from a distance or actually sit near you as he pretends to just be another library visitor. Or he can stay home if the remote sex toy works over your cellphones.
Once you are in the library start browsing for a book to read. Once you start browsing, your husband is free to turn on and off the sex toy as he sees fit. It may be best to keep the intensity low until you proceed to the next part of this hotwife challenge.
Once you find a book, go find some place that is secluded to sit and read. Once you are sitting and reading, your husband is free to turn up the intensity all he wants. His task is to get you to lose your composure or moan out. Your challenge is to keep your composure the entire time you are in the library.
Bonus points if you find a busy area of the library to sit and read. Extra bonus points if you find an erotic book to read.
If your husband is not with you in the library, make sure you send him some selfies from time to time. If the library has a mirror nearby, send him pics of you and your surroundings through the mirror.
If you hit the point of no return, just quickly make your way to the women’s bathroom, and then let loose and orgasm as quietly as you can.
The Public Stroll Hotwife Challenge
This one is still a beginner hotwife challenge but is a little more daring. If you have tried and had fun with some of the easier hotwife challenges, you may want to take a look at this one and possibly give it a try. This one can actually be a lot of fun and give you a taboo feeling. Here is how it goes.
Slip in or put on a remote-control sex toy. Then dress up a little on the sexy side. You want to draw a little attention and looks from guys. Now that you are dressed sexy and have had your husband test the remote-control sex toy, head out to a busy downtown business, shopping district, or a popular shopping mall. Once you arrive, the two of you should just start walking around.
Once you are comfortable walking around with your husband while he turns on and off the sex toy, it’s time to take this one up a notch. Your husband should fall back and let you walk alone while he trails behind you, turning the sex toy on and off, and up and down in intensity.
See how long you can handle this one in public before you are more than ready for your husband to take you home and reclaim you.
Bonus points if you manage to have an orgasm without anyone catching on.
The Park Bench Hotwife Challenge
This is a great hotwife challenge for a new hotwife that loves the outdoors. It’s simple to do and you and your husband can get a breath of fresh air while having a little fun. Here is how it works.
After you slip in or strap on a remote-control sex toy, and have thoroughly tested it, of course. You and your husband just head out to a local park. When you get to the park, just find a bench and the two of you can sit down and enjoy the weather. When people get close to you your husband should secretly turn on the sex toy and slowly ramp up its intensity as they pass by. Don’t forget to say hi to them as they pass by and you attempt not to squirm or moan out.
If you want to make it a little more challenging, your husband can leave you alone on the bench and control the sexy toy from a distance.
Bonus points if you have an orgasm before you leave the park. Just nobody can catch on except your husband.
Hotwife Challenge: Movie Night Control (XXX Edition)
This is an extremely easy beginner hotwife challenge to do, since it is done at home with just your husband. Maybe give this one a try when you and your husband plan to have sex. Here is how this easy hotwife challenge works.
Pick out a porn to watch together and slip in or put on a remote-control sex toy. Dress a little sexy or in lingerie. Once you are ready, give the remote to your husband and find a nice spot to cuddle up and watch the porn movie the two of you picked out.
Throughout the movie your husband should sexually tease you with the remote-control sex toy. It’s up to him if he lets you cum or not. If you do start to cum and just can’t control yourself, you have to put on a little masturbation show for your husband. Of course, his job is to reclaim you after you cum and bring you to orgasm a few times more however he wants.
Bonus points if you invite a friend or two over to watch the porn with the two of you. Maybe even work in a threesome or moresome after the porn movie.
Another option is to invite a bull over to watch the porn with you while your husband controls the sex toy, and then after the porn movie is over, you put on a private porn viewing with your bull for your husband.
Final Thoughts
I hope you enjoyed reading through these beginner friendly hotwife remote controlled sex toy challenges and dares, and they have sparked the adventurous side in you. Why not give one a try this week and possibly try them all over the coming weeks or months. Just don’t forget to keep consent, privacy, and the rules and laws of the area you give a hotwife challenge or dare a try at all times. You want to have fun, not get into trouble.
